One other thought about how the silliness of the poll cited in the previous message. People are asked if they'd vote for a person who'd been married three times. I guess this is to suggest that if you've been married three times, it must say something about your personality or your ability to deal with others or your devotion to your religion or something. But I know a guy who's been married three times because his first two wives died — one killed in a car crash two years after they were married; the second, taken by cancer after thirty-some-odd years of a wonderful, happy second marriage. Does getting married a third time reflect poorly in any way on this man?